Last night was Open House at my school. It is a busy time where parents can get information about what we will be learning, sign up for conferences and kids can show their families around the classroom and the school. It is a whirlwind, but is a great time to see parents and connect briefly.
I had a great turnout last night. All of my students came with family. A few parents had other engagements so they sent another family member. This is great to see the commitment and I believe strongly in the home-school connection.
As I was chatting with a parent last night, he asked me how everything was going for his son. Then he asked, "How are you doing? Really?" This was such a thoughtful question and a question that I have never been asked by a parent before. I could honestly say I am doing great. I'm enjoying the kids and am falling in love with teaching again after a very trying year last year.
After the evening was over, that question really struck me. I reflected on how often teachers are not asked that question. There are many messages about self-care and checking in with yourself. Sometimes people do say it, "How are you doing?" "How is everything going?" "Do you need anything?" But, there is a marked difference in someone saying the words and someone truly wanting to know the answer. I could tell this parent was interested in how I was doing. That was really powerful.
How are you doing? Really?
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